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Tuesday, January 31, 2006

Expectations (Root of all problems)

Expectation is one other thing that might be the cause of problems..
For instance everybody starts their day expecting some or the other good thing to happen,
@ the end if u get what u expected he/she is on the 9th cloud of happiness..
Otherwise he/she gets in the deep groove of dissappointment..
Take for instance...
We expect that he/she should ask me whether i am fine today or not
We expect that he/she should understand me very well..
We expect that he/she should not hurt me..
We expect that he/she should never make me upset...
Well the list goes on like this .. Small expectations like this can dissappoint a lot...
There is a saying "Take life as it comes" ... but y does human being just cannot follow this saying..
U might be thinking it is very easy to say this but hard to follow..
Believe me my friend there was a time i used to expect the things listed above and many times got dissappointed also..
Ufff!!! i know how miserable it was for me to get out of such things..
Oflate ,I kindaa dont get disappointed by such things , well this does not mean i am immune to feelings..
I shall be very much be happy if something that i expect happens, but dont get much disappointed when things that i expect does not
come true.. i think that there might be a good hidden motivation behind this and move ahead..
But as a human being it is true that one cannot completely stop "EXPECTING" somethings.. :)