Expectations (Root of all problems)
Expectation is one other thing that might be the cause of problems..
For instance everybody starts their day expecting some or the other good thing to happen,
@ the end if u get what u expected he/she is on the 9th cloud of happiness..
Otherwise he/she gets in the deep groove of dissappointment..
Take for instance...
We expect that he/she should ask me whether i am fine today or not
We expect that he/she should understand me very well..
We expect that he/she should not hurt me..
We expect that he/she should never make me upset...
Well the list goes on like this .. Small expectations like this can dissappoint a lot...
There is a saying "Take life as it comes" ... but y does human being just cannot follow this saying..
U might be thinking it is very easy to say this but hard to follow..
Believe me my friend there was a time i used to expect the things listed above and many times got dissappointed also..
Ufff!!! i know how miserable it was for me to get out of such things..
Oflate ,I kindaa dont get disappointed by such things , well this does not mean i am immune to feelings..
I shall be very much be happy if something that i expect happens, but dont get much disappointed when things that i expect does not
come true.. i think that there might be a good hidden motivation behind this and move ahead..
But as a human being it is true that one cannot completely stop "EXPECTING" somethings.. :)
For instance everybody starts their day expecting some or the other good thing to happen,
@ the end if u get what u expected he/she is on the 9th cloud of happiness..
Otherwise he/she gets in the deep groove of dissappointment..
Take for instance...
We expect that he/she should ask me whether i am fine today or not
We expect that he/she should understand me very well..
We expect that he/she should not hurt me..
We expect that he/she should never make me upset...
Well the list goes on like this .. Small expectations like this can dissappoint a lot...
There is a saying "Take life as it comes" ... but y does human being just cannot follow this saying..
U might be thinking it is very easy to say this but hard to follow..
Believe me my friend there was a time i used to expect the things listed above and many times got dissappointed also..
Ufff!!! i know how miserable it was for me to get out of such things..
Oflate ,I kindaa dont get disappointed by such things , well this does not mean i am immune to feelings..
I shall be very much be happy if something that i expect happens, but dont get much disappointed when things that i expect does not
come true.. i think that there might be a good hidden motivation behind this and move ahead..
But as a human being it is true that one cannot completely stop "EXPECTING" somethings.. :)
posted by DD | 8:02 PM
5 Comments:
Hi W_U, i do agree that one needs to have expectations in life,I guess ur talking about expectations that one need s to have from onself, but here i am purely talking about expectations that one has from others,
that really hurts when it does not come true...Y ??..whom?? ..how?? will u blame for the expectations not coming true.. and i am not among the one who points fingers at others..
it is all in life and that is how you learn it. expect something and get disappointed. don't expect something and it falls on your feet. no use pointing fingers at anything unless they are polished and painted and are pikish pink, says shree shree shree w_u swamee.
Hmmmmm , ok...
Did you expect that I will respond to this blog post after over 1/2 year.
expect the unexpected from me atleast.It is true that one should not expect anything and keep accepting life as it comes..If you apply some thought, the root cause of all this issues is that big organ that everyone of us has got that makes us think this way. I wish, I could tame my mind...:-(
Hey Sachin!! good to see such unexpected thing :D
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