A friend in need is a friend in deed...
I have always been thinking about this adage ..Which according to me would mean..
"A person who comes to ur rescue when ur in trouble is a true friend".
Well i have always given a helping hand to some or the other even before they tell me what is the problem..I can understand what they are going through somehow and try to help them ..Is this a negative thing or a problem with me ..Should i stop helping them or wait they themselves ask me for some help..There are times when i really needed some1 to talk and till now i have never recived that true friend ..To tell the truth i have lots of friends.. but i have not been able to find the true friend..every time i thinkya he/she can be my best buddy .. my hopes get shattered .. I remember that i had written about "Expectations"..and i know one shld not expect much from some1 and be dependent on them..but i think expecting some1 to give a patient ear to listen is not 2 much especially when u have been giving 100% to the other person.
Or is it me alone who thinks 2 much about all these silly things...
"A person who comes to ur rescue when ur in trouble is a true friend".
Well i have always given a helping hand to some or the other even before they tell me what is the problem..I can understand what they are going through somehow and try to help them ..Is this a negative thing or a problem with me ..Should i stop helping them or wait they themselves ask me for some help..There are times when i really needed some1 to talk and till now i have never recived that true friend ..To tell the truth i have lots of friends.. but i have not been able to find the true friend..every time i thinkya he/she can be my best buddy .. my hopes get shattered .. I remember that i had written about "Expectations"..and i know one shld not expect much from some1 and be dependent on them..but i think expecting some1 to give a patient ear to listen is not 2 much especially when u have been giving 100% to the other person.
Or is it me alone who thinks 2 much about all these silly things...
posted by DD | 12:12 PM
7 Comments:
why are you giving so much to people when you are not sure they will give back the same to you?
weely can be a good friend, he is already an online-agony-unkill.
Frankly speaking that has been my weakness ..I am trying to change myself..
Thanks W_U , ya we can be good friends..
Keep Smiling,
DD
when we do something for someone there is a hope that they will do the same for us when we are in need atleast i assume so everytime i do something to help people(which is not so common). but now i have learnt that just do it and you will get something good from some other direction, there is a good movie on this theme where one person who is at the receiving of some good deed does not repay it to the person back but does a good deed to someone else and finally this chain gets back to the starter... so for me it has been like this only till now and i have got more than i have given...but not from the same people.
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W_U :
Will write very soon....
I tried opening the site on the other day , but all in vain .. guess the site had been blocked after the 7/11 incident for the fear of passing on secret messages using the blogging site as i read it in the newspaper....
Anonymous :
Do u mean one shld just keep on helping and just not have any hopes from getting the same kind of help from the other end .
I have another ques ..
if we shld not keep any hopes of a helping hand from the other friend ..
Then "Are they friends" or the person is just being opportunistic of taking the help which he/she is getting even before asking for it ??
Keep Smiling,
DD :)
aahem! well, my dearest Akka, herez wat i have to say...it all dependz on duh kind of friend(s) we have, if the bondin z so strong n standin heavy on solid ground, friendz start bein der even widout ya expectin em to be, n tiz upto us to figure out duh kind of persons they are. so its NOT wrong to expect from someone u know is really WORTH leanin onto, but sometimes we mite ASSUME em to be there for us, but they may not be of those sorts, and thats wen we get shattered, coz we reckon em to be der, but it does'nt happen.
think bout it....
keep smilin
Peace & Love
Goofy 06 :)
:-) ...
Keep Smiling,
DD
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